Jan/22/07

Capture

• Active Listening
• Empathic Listening
• Unconcious Competence and Concious Competence Etc...
• More on Agendas
• AutoBiographical Comments

Relevence

1. Empathic Listening can be a much more effective form of listening
2. People can act weird if they are Conciously Competent
3. Its important to avoid Autobiographical Comments

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• When people get intense you need to put in some emotional effort to try and understand where they are coming from. Its possible to communicate on a very basic level by simply sensing the emotion of a person.

Teach: Mason, In the Dorm, 10:10 am

I told mason about the idea that many of us knew each other in the pre-exsistence, and that when we "re-meet" here on earth, we still have relationships and impressions of each other that we can remember and respond to. Its important to listen to the subtle quirks people will send you, often times you will understand their personality that way.

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Ive specifically noticed that sometimes i use selective hearing, and that i will think of stories to tell sometimes when im in a conversation with someone. Next time i catch myself doing this im going to choose to switch into Active or Empathic listening, depending on the situation.