Monday, February 26, 2007
Different forms of Role Play
Emotions never die, they are burried alive and come forth later in uglier ways
Relevance
We can use role play if we ever get in a position of future management to test our customer service line
Apply
Express your emotions, dont let them sit around. Or else you can expect some mad crazy night of the living dead experience.
Teach
Mason has been harboring some ugly emotions, but he needs to express them and let them out.
Or else i might find myself slain in the night.
Report
We are working on good things here in class, however it seems like weve been working on almost the exact same items the entire semester thus far. Which is cool. It just strikes me a little funny that we still havnt finished the role play yet. egad...
Tuesday, February 13, 2007
- The Maturity Continueum
- Naps during class
Relevance
- The maturity continueum helps to explain how different people react and engage in different relationships.
- Its also a good guide for preparing somebody for marriage, it helps them know if they are mature enough to take care of themselves
- Sometimes we can take power naps during class if its absolutley necessary
Apply
Next time i find myself absolutley exausted im taking a nap during class. just for a few minutes
Teach
Mason thought it was awesome that we could take naps during class. Or just get up and leave to do something. Good call
Report
The maturity Continueum is a good thing to become familiar with, even if your not too sure how to spell continueum. Its a difficult word.
Wednesday, February 7, 2007
- The difference between killing someone and not killing them
- More on Empathic Listening
Relevance
- Empathic listening is taking someone elses energy and useing it
- Empathic listening can help make people speechless. because it mirrors what they are saying.
- If you are getting old you can use brutal killing moves to defend yourself
Apply
I used wang chung on my roomate today.
Teach
You can control yourself and your antagonist by controling your energy and refocusing his. By flowing like water.
Report
Its nice to know that there is a martial arts style that teaches you how to instantly kill your opponent. what a happy world we live in. lets just kill everyone before we get into any conflict.
Friday, February 2, 2007
- Things to study for the test
- The 5 Cancerous Feelings
Relevance
- The five Cancerous feelings can be devestating to your relationships
- If your not careful someone might think poorly of you if you exhibit a Cancerous Feeling
- People will probably try to use better emotions if they are educated about it, dont be so hard on people who show cancerous signs, just help them see what they should be doing.
Apply
Next time i see myself complaining ill stop myself.
Teach
Mason recognised the Cancerous emotions, they are something that shouldnt be trifled with he said. He thought it was a good idea to try and supress them and to use more mature methods of venting frustration.
Report
Its important to think about what you think about. so that you can catch yourself before you say something or act embarassing. Look before you Leap.
Wednesday, January 31, 2007
- More on Empathic Learning
Relevance
- Empathic Learning is good to use.
- Empathic Learning is a good idea.
- Empathic Learning works well if you invest some emotion with it
Apply
Its good to just keep these sorts of things in mind when someone is talking to you, it helps you stay focussed on them.
Teach
Ive taught Mason so much about Empathic listening that hes almost a pro with it now
Report
Empathic Listening can be a powerful tool if you know what your doing. I keep getting the impression that what were doing in class is more or less just an emotional version of Active Listening. Which to me, doesnt seem like it would be that effective. Empathic Listening should have more emotional investment, the person you are listening to should know that you honest to goodness are listening because your responding realistically. To be honest im not sure that 100% pure Empathic Listening has any use, because to me it doesnt get anywhere. If your in a relationship where there isnt enough trust for you to be able to ask even any small questions, then your probably not the right person to be talking to. Questions can be necessary.
Monday, January 29, 2007
- The Viscious and Virtuous Cycle
- What Remember means
Relevance
- Remember actually means Renew your membership to something. Like reassociating yourself with a memory.
- The Virtuous Cycle skips the consequences that take place through pride
- The Viscious Cycle takes place without ever experienceing humility
Apply
- Its easy enough to catch yourself and recognise most blessings, just make sure you can stay humble and grateful about it
Teach
I taught mason about it and he thought it was interesting that the "Viscious Cycle" had a positive counterpart the "Virtuous Cycle"
Report
Seeing the word Remember a different way was really interesting to me. It added a slightly different feel about the way i remember things now.
Saturday, January 27, 2007
- The impact that searching for positive things makes on a person.
Relevence
- People respond better when you point out positive things they have done
- Use words like "And" instead of "but" so that it doesnt push aside the things youve said
- Pointing out negative things reminds people that they are a failure, which can be a burden.
Apply
- Someday when little kids come my way ill praise them about the positive things they do rather then pointing out the negative things
Teach
I told Eliot my neighbor about how using "And" instead of "But" can have a more positive impact on a conversation because it doesnt push aside the the points that you made earlier. Its a helpful habit to get accustomed to
Report
I had a conversation yesterday with a friend of mine, she said that a man actually went as far as to name two of his kids "winner" and "loser" as an experiment. As absolutely bizzare as it sounds the kid named Winner acutaully went on to be convicted of a number high crimes and is now serving time in prison. Where as the kid named Loser goes by the name "Lou" and has become a succseful business man. Very very curious.